10 rules of dating for women
Otherwise she will end up unsatisfied and likely to look elsewhere.
[Read: 8 crucial moves you need to turn her on] #2 Don’t mention the C word. Just because you consider her a cougar, doesn’t mean that she wants to be thought of that way.
Cougar Town, Sex and the City, The Graduate – cougars have been present in popular culture for quite some time, but have never been more greatly represented on TV and film as they are right now.
There is something of a fascination with this creature in modern media, the toyboy-seeking sexual predator, and it seems to have led to an increased acceptance of the age gap between younger men and older women. A cougar, roughly put, is a woman who dates a younger man – whether done in a serial fashion or as a one off doesn’t really matter.
Women hit their sexual peaks between their mid-thirties and forties, and when they hit it, they really do hit it.
How to date a cougar The main thing to remember when dating a cougar is that the age difference means you are going to be treading on unfamiliar ground.
Just to give you guys out there with little to no experience of dating the older woman a helping hand, follow the rules listed below to ensure smooth sailing on those uncharted waters. There’s a reason that the term “cougar” has been used rather than “panda” or “kitten,” for example.
Cougars are fierce and wilful animals, so much so that even a full grown grizzly bear would hesitate to take one on. If you plan on dating a cougar, you’d better make sure you have the energy and ability to satisfy and keep up with her.
Expecting a Cameron Diaz look-alike, he was shocked to meet a morbidly obese woman in a moo-moo. On the other hand, we’ve dated men who were relieved and delighted that we simply looked like our pictures.
(And believe us, we’re not Cameron.) They were grateful enough to stay through the crème brulée.