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The truth is, by having an attitude of feeling undeserving of more experienced girls, then you are only sabotaging yourself.
If you have grown up somewhat shy and socially awkward, then it will be almost inevitable that most girls will be more experienced than you.
Would you think that a lottery winner was superior to you?
Another way of feeling inferior is thinking that being less experienced than the girl with relationships will immediately make you repulsive to her.
I remember back when I was very shy around girls, I would start to really like a girl and start to fantasize about our future together… In hindsight, it seems so foolish, yet so many shy guys do it.Do not put the girl on a pedestal before you even know her. That’s why so many women give guys the advice to “be yourself.” They don’t like it when a guy is trying hard to impress them and get them to like him.Especially when they haven’t done anything to deserve his attention yet except looking pretty.Most guys feel a little nervous around the girls they like, but they’re able to take a deep breath, push through it, and become comfortable with them over time. This post is for the guys who feel really anxious, scared and inhibited around girls.If you get a strong physical feeling of anxiety when you think of talking to a girl you like, or you feel a powerful, paralyzing hesitation when you want to approach or ask out a girl, then this post is for you.