Dating time before engagement

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If we can draw any conclusions from these studies, it would be that the couples who tended to hold off longer to marry ended up being the most satisfied in their marriages in the long-term and less likely to divorce.

Even with these studies telling us that staying the course in dating does seem to pay off in marriage, there are always exceptions to the rule.

The vast majority (91%) said they got married to show their commitment, while barely any did so due to social pressure (2%), financial reasons (2%), or out of convenience (2%), which shows how far society has come in just a few decades.

An even greater number of the couples (95%) would recommend marriage and 85% said it makes a relationship stronger, which is heartening but also unsurprising given that the couples were in the honeymoon phase of their marriages.

But a lot of my friends have been getting married with fewer than this magical two years under their belts, and it's making me second-guess my rule. Does it really matter at all how long you date before you get married?Another more recent study published by researchers from Emory University following three thousand couples found that those who dated three or more years were 39 percent less likely to get divorced than those who dated less than a year.Couples that dated for two years were 20 percent less likely to split.Ultimately, only you and your partner can decide when you should tie the knot — if ever.Of course, taking your time and getting to know each other will only benefit you, but if it's right, it's right.

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