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I didn’t know much at all about personality type when we met, and those insights sure would have been helpful!
Here are the tips I gave the person who emailed me, based on personality knowledge and my own experience.
Capitalize on your warm, nurturing side and your sunny disposition.
3) Your natural ENFP traits attract this type like a bee to honey (to a point).
When he helps you work through a problem, tell him that you appreciate him partnering with you because his input helps you built to a more complete solution. I met my hubby at a time when he was going through some major life changes – a move to a completely new city on the other side of the US without any family or friends to support him.
The person was an ENFP (an Extraverted, flexible green), dating an ISTJ (an Introverted, structured gold), and wondering how to make a relationship work between two opposite personality types.
DON’T try to manipulate a commitment to you faster, because it will backfire. Those techniques don’t draw this type in, they push this type away.
Just live your own life with your own friends and taking care of your own responsibilities.
Your enthusiastic, playful, impetuous, gregarious nature is attractive to an ISTJ because it offers an optimistic and joyful influence.
However, s/he can only take so much of this for so long before it crosses into annoyance or unreliability.