Modern dating etiquette
"This study finds that dating behaviors drastically differ between the ages.
Younger singles are more likely to friend their date on Facebook, communicate by text after a date, and be evasive about their availability if they're not interested in a second date.
As far as friend requesting your date goes, 21 percent of young singles say it's OK to request a friend after 2-3 dates while 11 percent of older singles wait until the relationship is exclusive to do so.
These low percentages mean keep your add-friend trigger finger under control while in the early phase of dating.
In the true love match there is give and take that works out over time.
When one says to the other, “I’m not cooking dinner another night this month,” the partner either learns to cook or becomes the master finder for take-out and ordering in food.
If it happens it happens If not it’s probably too soon Avoid sharing confidences.
Newly back on the dating scene I’m a bit confused as to whether I insist on paying for dinner, or would that be piggish?
If she persists on paying her share, does that mean she’s not interested in me? –Henry, Providence, RI In the same manner as modern business etiquette, the person who does the inviting pays for dinner, unless it is established from the start that you are going dutch treat — each paying their own expenses.
As opposed to, “Do you want to meet me for dinner some time?
” which infers you would like to spend time with the person, but you’re not committing to paying for their dinner.