This concern on the woman’s part is particularly significant if she actually likes you and doesn’t want to turn you off by being too “easy”, too pushy, or appear desperate.If that’s the kind of woman you think you are dealing with, patience is the name of the game here.Regardless, the more harsh term for this type of woman is “attention whore.” This kind of behavior is not easy to recognize right away.However, usually this behavior becomes obvious when the woman who flirts with you seems to behave exactly the same way with other guys, even in your presence.The only way to find out whether that woman is interested in you is to actually take the risk and make a move.Whether it’s asking her out, trying to kiss her, touching her lightly or doing whatever else that would suggest that you are interested in her – her response to any of that will be a more reliable indicator of her interest level than any mixed signals she is sending on her own.
This suggestion overlooks one very important difference between men and women when it comes to attraction.
This kind of woman is “getting off” on being admired, and she is generally bad news.
She is the one who is used to juggling several guys and playing with their time and feelings.
On the other hand, some men’s wishful thinking makes them interpret signs of friendliness as flattering signs of attraction and romantic interest.
Sometimes both of the above factors come into play at the same time.